FIFTH on December 2019

FIFTH

This month had been insane for both of us with work and many new plans. First of all i would like to say thank you for going through ups and downs with me. Nonetheless, you are the best bf i ever had and no doubt the life plans i have with you i am going to work hard for it <3. 

First up, Kevin hart was a highlight of this month, cause i was waiting to surprise you with the tickets and no doubt I'm glad you enjoyed this show :) Happy that i managed to surprise you with it. 

Then after which you decide to surprise me by taking me on a trip to USS... GOSH why are you so sweet? I was totally taken off guard for that, no doubt it felt so good cause it was a total new dating experience with you. 

Fav photo of us in USS

Why you so hot?? (Model Material indeed) 

Aiyooyoo , He is my life <3 

Then it was a surprise dinner with your family which was... GOOOD~ Finally i managed to meet your woman of your life, momsie. She is super nice and sweet. Glad i've been to your place to have dinner with her and sisters and even tried her cooking, which was super duper delicious <3 

Not to forget our first ever Christmas together too, thou we never celebrate but oh wells... Taking pictures and buying some gifts for each other is good enough. Not to forget the beautiful necklace you got for me, it is beautiful <3 Thank you so much dear.

Yay! Xmas Dinner with Love <3 

This month was filled with fun and activities. These are the highlights of the month of December and of course we are gonna end the year with a good gym session of 31 REPS of every exercise. I can't wait for that honestly. WOOOOHOOOO! Thank you babe, for being the one who love me the most and accepting every flaws i have <3 

I love you and may our love keep blooming and growing. 

To 2019, may our goals be achieved and of course start planning for the future <3 

"Yeap everyone ain't perfect, so is he. He is human and flawed, but he is perfect to me and only me.  That is all that matters"

" You are my life, my inspiration, my strength, my soulmate, my bestfriend. I love you" 

Love from,
Amanda Aara Lai<3

4th with my love <3

This man here.... never fail to surprise me. I am glad to have met this man 5 months ago and started chatting with him like a friend then we became training buddies in the end. After which, somebody actually confessed to me :o well no doubt i was skeptical initially about this thing so i kinda pushed him away but after a few weeks he insisted we hang out then i realised that this man was actually serious about dating. I told him why i sort of didnt agree to date and also we share many common stories together. Surprisingly we clique along quite well and tadaaaaaa here we are at our 4th month together. 

No doubt we have shared alot of targets in life and i would love to be there to achieve it with him. I love you bae and thanks for giving me a chance to be in your life and be there for you no matter what happens. 

This month was a hectic one for both of us cause someone was busy prepping for 2 comps and no doubt it was really taxing on his body and him. But I’m glad he managed to clinch the 5 the title and make a debut in the recent show. Babe, i love you so much and seen you gone through so much. Tho its a short period of time but many episodes of events had happened. Enough to drive me crazy and i’m impressed in how you handle it so well. You really inspire me as a partner and as an athlete <3 

S/N: 

Don't wanna feel another touch

Don't wanna start another fire

Don't wanna know another kiss

No other name falling off my lips

Don't wanna give my heart away

To another stranger

Or let another day begin

Won't even let the sunlight in

No, I'll never love again

I just wanna share my life with you and no one else. I just wanna wake up to you every single morning. I would say to everyone “he is taken and mine forever”. I also can’t wait for the day where we become a life time couple. Many milestones to be achieved together, many adventures together, many quarell, many fights and of course many loving moments and memories. 

I love you my one and only HyderHydre <3 

The Journey of his competition

As crazy as it sounds but i have never seen someone so committed into doing something. Yes, everyone has passion or interest in something they love to do, but no one has ever done it like you did.

This competition prep of yours had taught me a lot of life lessons, such as 

"Never giving up till the results are announced" 

"Giving 101% effort when doing something" 

"Nobody outworks you"

"Why you need rest when you are not there yet"

"Accept defeat and work harder from the lost" 

"Accepting critics cause they are the best way to gain the champion"

And the list just keeps going on. 

Frankly speaking, why i am sharing this is cause i am really amazed and proud to have my boyfriend here who does bodybuilding and i am able to experience the training, the diet, the tiredness from work and still carry on training kinda life. 

No doubt all this lasted for 2 months and it honestly went by really fast. 

So first, he competed in Singapore largest fitness show which was called " SHOW OF STRENGTH", oh and i was really excited about it cause he was really prepping for this show for only 8 weeks and no doubt his body was.... WOW!!! 

Yeap... As mentioned it was the biggest show so he was competing in the classic physique short class which had about 16 athletes from different countries... So ... the result of this show was something he never wanted to share with anyone cause he never wanted that placing and honestly when i saw him broke down backstage after receiving his medal, when i hugged him so tightly.. All i ever wanted to tell him was "It's okay" but i know its not. My heart literally shattered... guys, you have no idea how painful it is to watch someone work so hard for a competition and in the end breaks down in front of you cause he gave his all for this show... But i just want him to know that he always have my back, and no matter what the result is.. he is always my number 1 and my champ :) He took this defeat really hard on himself and decides to redeem himself by competing in the next show... which was 6 days apart from the previous show. 

Indeed it was crazy! I swear, his body was already crashing at the second day of depletion workout and despite that he still pushes himself to surpass his limits and just keep training harder cause thats how crazy and how hungry he is for the gold. Yeap, so was it.. i was really crazy that i was there for him throughout his prep and never saw this side of him before.... Shagged out but still working hard at work and really never fail to try to make my day better.... and thus, this was his body during fitness ironman 2018 ...

AND YESSS!~ he managed to clinched the title and i am serious when the judge announced the results i was shaking and breaking down in the audience... I was quietly wiping of my tears of joy cause i know how much this man here worked during this prep. 

His determination, perseverance and dedication for this sport is tip top. I was smiling and tears of joy just kept flowing. No doubt he manage to end this season off really well by becoming the 5 time champ ~~ 

Just want to end this post with tell him that... "You really did well through this prep and i know you've given your everything you could and babe you really inspire me during this prep." He is someone i look up to when it comes to competing in body building cause he nail every aspect of this.. like the mental, physical and other aspects. Congratulations to MY 5 time champ and its time to rest and reboot your body before you start competing in 2019 again.. and NO MORE crash dieting :) 

~The Journey of the 5 time champ~ 

All the way babe

I dont know how to express my feelings to you as the comp is nearing i’m actually more excited for you. I’ve watched you crashed diet and worked so hard for the past 7 weeks, babe.... just a week more and you are done with this show. I really can’t wait to see you on stage. 

Indeed this is the first time i am at the body building show and seriously ..... i am even more pumped cause i am supporting my partner in this show. I have no idea what to expect and OMG.... just really excited for this. Babe thou this whole prep i wasn’t there like all the time but least i saw you go through this prep ... and frankly speaking it requires strong mentality to be able to go through a weeks of HELL. Man, you are strong as fuck! I have no idea how you do it but baby, you survived ! 

All the best for the last few days of prep and press on champ, cause what makes you different from the others is that you have a strong determination and fighting spirit which really inspires me babe. “Nobody outworks me”- when you say that it really make me think in terms of life and gymming process. I actually apply that in gym and other aspects now. Thanks love for the inspiration and i just hope i will take up

this sport competitively as i slowly build passion for it and yearn for it.

Exactly 4 weeks out.... 

Through this first 4 weeks of prep, prolly half the time you were staying strong and trying to fight through this due to crash dieting and also 13 days without me. I am truly glad that you fight through it really strongly and babe i am fucking proud of you <3 Looking at the body difference and how our relationship has grown as days goes by i swear babe i am locked down to only one option to spend the rest of my life with. I am gonna say this, this may sound crazy but babe, i can lose everything in my life but there is one thing i can’t lose and thats you :(. 

Thank you for always making me smile and laugh despite you being tired from training and work. Honestly, nothing more i could ask for in life. Literally completed with so much love from you and just you. Maybe just need to add in Hycle and Hyla :D 

Anyways, to end of this post i would like to say babe... the last 4 weeks lets nail this and fight this through! I am here now all the way to the day of your comp and every single day I’m gonna be there to train with you be it day or night. Champ, lets bring home the champ once again and i know you will fight it through no matter what! I love you babe and you can do this! No matter what happens, i am ALWAYS here for you my love! 

I love you hyder hydre! <3